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Sunday, July 09, 2006

True Friendship

This particular posting is dedicated for someone who has a troubled heart due to friendship problem..But I guess, we can all learn from this! :D

I've had the same friendship problem months ago. It was pretty stormy and edgy moments. But I have learned so much from that experience. Im even thankful that I have that problem because it really opened my eyes and see the real truth.
It taught me what does it mean to be a true friend and I also learn that people do change! Sometimes it really surprised me that the people that we thought were our best friends, it turned out they were not what we expected from best friends . And on the other hand, it surprised me also that people who we thought initially were the bad people, they turned out to be the ones who care about us. Amazing, huh?!

Im happy with what I have right now.. I'm thankful that I have a loving family, friends and of course, I still have Someone who cares about all of us. :)

Below is couple of articles about a true friendship and I soo agree with what they wrote.
Enjoy!!


A poem by
David Leonhardt

True Friendship

Choose friends wisely, the portrait they paint
Is who you are and who you ain't.
Friendship is life's great support
When friends are of the right sort.
For all your dreams do they make room,
Or bring you down with doom and gloom?
You will know a friendship is true
When it brings out the best in you.



True Friends
by Kristie-Lyn Wightman

People today, in all this new world technology and thinking, have lost sight of what a true friendship is. So, in sprit of my best friend Tellie, I thought I would help the world out a little and explain what real, true friends are.

1. Friends don't have to be exactly the same. Friends have similarities but they also have their differences. They key to opening up the world of friendship is not only to expand on similarities but to accept each other's faults. Because you can't ever judge your friend.

2. Friends have to argue! No one likes to but it is necessary to be healthy. Cause if you agree on everything, either the government has expanded cloning subjects or someone isn't being true and is trying a little too hard.

3. You have to be comfortable together or else you just aren't going to click. If you feel edgy around the person then something isn't quite right.

4. Friends love unconditionally. They have there little angry moments but what's done is done and all is forgive and forget. Why let something that happened in the past ruin what happiness you could have in the future?

5. Believe in love at first sight because there is the equivalent in friendship. Some people think that you have to know someone really well to become good friends. Trust me, it's not true. If the first time you really spend time together you talk for 25 hours straight until 4:30 in the morning about some topic you thought no one else in the world understood, hun, that's real love at first sight.

2 Comments:

  • At 6:32 AM, Blogger Destri Andorf said…

    hiksss hiksss :~) <-- terharu! bukan ingusan yah!! :P hauhauahauhauah

     
  • At 9:23 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    friends come and go...

    but, only TRUE friends will always be there and be with you. sad/happy/etc.

     

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